I need to reread about highly sensitive people. Today I’m tired and I’m sure that reduced my coping skills. My daughter was wearing me down today with her constant chatter and demands to play with her.
My son (Big E) had a hockey birthday party to go to today. He hasn’t skated since last winter but was game to go to this party. It was with a few kids from his class. It was at a larger multiplex arena I had not been inside before so we went early to scope it out as my husband was sleeping (he’s on night shift right now).
My son is also highly sensitive. In the past he has had a hard time with some activities but he’d been to this same kid’s skating birthday last year so he was ok. I dressed him up and made sure he made it out onto the ice ok. He fell a few times but looked like he was having fun. My daughter who was still challenging with her chatter and whining to go (arg whining drives me crazy). We headed off to McDonald’s for some fries for her and so she could play a little.
When I arrived back he was already in the dressing room having taken off his skating gear and seemed sad. There was still cake and the party room so we didn’t have a chance to chat right away. And is it just me or is talking with other mom’s and dad’s often awkward and just feels like so much work. I feel like I’m friendly enough but engaging other parent’s in small talk is not my idea of a good time. At all.
Once home, my son finally told me that he was hit twice with a puck and had a tender bump above his knee. Poor guy. I gave him an ice pack and he seemed in good spirits.
We were all tired today. I really, really dislike time change. Whoever came up with that idea, did not have kids. We were all tired and ready for bed today.
I’ve been reflecting and I know it’s my sensitivity showing. I just feel that interactions could be so much easier if we all had intentions to be friendly and kind. Why does it feel so difficult? Are we really doing our best? That is always my default saying and my thought normally. I think for the most part we are all trying to do our best to live good lives. But after interactions like today and over the last couple of years, I really wonder, our we really doing our best?