I’m struggling right now with my 7 year old who will tell stories of things that he is experiencing that I know are not true. I think part of it is the desire for attention or to feel like a part of a funny or interesting story. They are not meant to hurt anyone but I don’t know what to do with them.
I’ve tried telling him that I know what he is saying is not true. The other day I was telling my husband a story about our 5 year old who came out of her room just as I was walking up the stairs to go to bed. She turned and went into our spare bedroom and proceeded to turn towards the wall and kept trying to walk but was just bumping into the wall. She was sleep walking which she does sporadically.
My son then proceeded to say he saw her too. That he came out of his room and saw it. He didn’t. I steered her back to bed and he was fast asleep in his room that had the door closed.
This is the type of story. I saw a raccoon once on our back fence. He says he saw it too. He didn’t. It was early morning and I was alone for at least another hour before he stirred out of bed.
These fibs are not hurting anyone and I think just an attempt to feel a part of funny or “cool” happenings. I worry that if he is doing this with his friends that can also clearly see sometimes that these stories aren’t true that they will turn away as it can be so annoying. When I do call him on it he will just keep insisting that his story is true. Is this a normal part of development?
I haven’t really googled about this. Sometimes I just want one answer not trying to sift through everyone’s opinions but is there really an answer that is trustworthy? Parenting each child is so different that trying to figure out what works for one person and their child might be the exact wrong thing to do. The older I get, I see that I really don’t know many of the things I so clearly thought I did in my 20’s and 30’s. Raising children really highlights this too.